The type of “servitude” found in this situation lacks inner significance as there is no intended consciousness of union with the Woman. What interest these males is not the Woman herself as much as the idea of Her, a collection of bits and parts: feet, whip, make-up and shiny latex. For him, “serving” is a technique used to get close to Her. While fun, his “slavery” is destined to vanish once the “serving” session is over. Yet, to experience the full man, however, the man deeply devoted to you and willing to serve you with all the faculties of his soul is something that takes time, something that comes naturally — not something that is easily attained overnight or achieved through imitation.
Love, is the means to this end; it is the only true engine behind authentic, choice-based slavery. No matter how much a male throws himself at the mercy of his Keeper to be used and reshaped, without the presence love, this type of servitude will be divorced from any real essence.
A Mistress is fully aware and cautious of males who enter slavery with hopes and desires for romance and love that will eventually lead to requited love. As I have written before, a Mistress is not obligated to love Her slaves back. All that the slave should expect in return is Her authentic desire to own him, to have him at Her feet. That said, when a Mistress loves her slave and expresses same to him, Her words comfort him, inspire him, excite him and sustain him.
A Mistress’s love comforts him because he has never had a greater feeling than the knowledge that the love he has for Her is returned in kind. This feeling brings him peace and contentment.
The Mistress’s love inspires him because it motivates him to do beautiful things. Because the Mistress loves Her slave he is so much more eager to constantly prove his love for Her and his commitment to serve Her, to follow in Her footsteps. And he is emotionally charged to serve Her in Her missionary work too, and with the same joy and vigor as the Mistress Herself.
The Mistress’s love excites him because it is the fuel for the sexual desire for Her that burns within him and becomes more intense each day. Yes, if the Mistress did not love the slave, Her charm, intellect and beauty would still draw him to Her, but the slave’s desire for Her would be a mere fraction of what it is because he knows She loves him.
The Mistress’s love sustains him because it is a source of support for him whenever he is faced with hardship. The life of everyday service to Her which he aspires to is beautiful, natural and easy for him yet it is hard in equal measure. Knowing the depth of the Mistress’s love for him gives him the strength and perseverance to rise up and continue the beautiful and fulfilling journey.
In his heart he finds a beautiful melding of his love for Her and his commitment to be Her slave, how his love and his slavery is so easily joined together to become one.
The addition of the Mistress’s love of him to this mixture only enhances it and makes it even more beautiful. Her love is all the more meaningful to him and appreciated by him precisely because She, as the Mistress, is not obligated to love him merely because he is Her slave.
